Spirituality, Therapy, and the Good Life

Is there such a thing as Depressive Personality Disorder? Todd Finnerty believes so.

“Can you think of a person you may have met or treated whose usual mood was gloomy and unhappy, were they critical of themselves and did they brood and tend to worry? Did they tend to be negative and judgmental toward others? Were they pessimistic and prone to feeling guilty or remorseful? Did this person have a Depressive Personality Disorder?”

So begins Todd Finnerty’s thoughtful new book, Depressive Personality Disorder: Understanding Current Trends in Research and Practice which is available for review online.

You can also read Finnerty’s blog here .

A description of his book follows:

“This book answers the question “Does Depressive Personality Disorder exist?” with a concise, readable review of current research. DPD is a valid and clinically useful concept which should be included in DSM-V and ICD-11. DPD was offered as both a diagnosis for further study and an example of a diagnosis that can be made under Personality Disorder NOS in the DSM-IV and DSMIV-TR. The book is intended for professionals, students and anyone else interested in character traits which impact mood. It offers a view of depressive personality disorder supported by current research. Gain a firm background in recent research and theory on DPD and understand its relationship to chronic depression, dysthymic disorder, cognitive vulnerabilities to depression and the Five-Factor Model of Personality.”

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Is there such a thing as Depressive Personality Disorder? Todd Finnerty believes so.

“Can you think of a person you may have met or treated whose usual mood was gloomy and unhappy, were they critical of themselves and did they brood and tend to worry?
Did they tend to be negative and judgmental toward others? Were they pessimistic
and prone to feeling guilty or remorseful? Did this person have a Depressive
Personality Disorder?”

So begins Todd Finnerty’s thoughtful new book, Depressive Personality Disorder: Understanding Current Trends in Research and Practice which is available for review online.
You can also read Finnerty’s blog here .

A description of his book follows:

“This book answers the question “Does Depressive Personality Disorder exist?” with a concise, readable review of current research. DPD is a valid and clinically useful concept which should be included in DSM-V and ICD-11. DPD was offered as both a diagnosis for further
study and an example of a diagnosis that can be made under Personality Disorder NOS in the DSM-IV and DSMIV-TR. The book is intended for professionals, students and anyone else interested in character traits which impact mood. It offers a view of depressive personality
disorder supported by current research. Gain a firm background in recent research and theory on DPD and understand its relationship to chronic depression, dysthymic disorder, cognitive vulnerabilities to depression and the Five-Factor Model of Personality.”

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According to Janice Brewi and Anne Brennan, authors of “Celebrate Midlife: Jungian Archetypes and Midlife Spirituality,” there are two possible catastrophes at midlife. One is to deny the presence of the shadow and hold on firmly to our lifestyle and identity, refusing to surrender outgrown or acknowledge developing aspects of our personalities. This fear to risk, and determination to maintain the status quot, freezes our personal development and deprives us of valuable opportunities for growth. As Brewi and Brennan observe, “one can die at forty and not get buried until ninety. This would surely be a catastrophe.”

The other catastrophe according to Brewi and Brennan would be to embrace our shadows while at the same time rejecting much of what we’ve valued up until this point, deeming most of our past choices to be the wrong ones, and the ‘self’ that we’ve presented to the world up until this point as an impostor. Those of us who respond to our shadows by abandoning all of the now rejected old, in order to be completely free to experiment with the more titillating new, often sabotage their development and risk catastrophic losses.
Psychotherapist, James Dolan, suggests that one of the most obvious ways that we can detect the presence of the shadow is in the simmering depression that haunts so many of us. This depression, from his perspective, is connected to our sorrow, our regret, our resentment, our lost dreams, our creativity, and so many other facets of ourselves that we’ve denied.  Finding oneself is not purely about embracing the desired, or rejecting the unpleasant. Instead, it’s about examination and integration — exploring what fits, letting go of what no longer works, embracing the gifts that we’ve lost or abandoned, and weaving the various strands of the self together to create a whole and unified tapestry.

The years following young adulthood offer as many (if not more) prospects for growth than our often romanticized youth promised. Opening ourselves up to these possibilities by reclaiming or modifying old visions or by creating new dreams fosters hope, discovery and renewal. Focusing on what did not/ might have/ could have/ should have/ and should not have been only leads to prolonged and unnecessary suffering.

It’s impossible to arrive at midlife without being scarred. In “Listening to Midlife” Mark Gerzon points out, “None of us reaches the second half whole… Our health depends on beginning to heal these wounds and finding greater wholeness – and holiness in the second half of our lives.”

The process of healing past wounds and reclaiming lost gifts can often be a painful one, and yet when we proceed with wisdom and integrity, it is always a sacred journey.

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According to Janice Brewi and Anne Brennan, authors of “Celebrate Midlife: Jungian Archetypes and Midlife Spirituality,” there are two possible catastrophes at midlife. One is to deny the presence of the shadow and hold on firmly to our lifestyle and identity, refusing to surrender outgrown or acknowledge developing aspects of our personalities. This fear to risk, and determination to maintain the status quot, freezes our personal development and deprives us of valuable opportunities for growth. As Brewi and Brennan observe, “one can die at forty and not get buried until ninety. This would surely be a catastrophe.”

The other catastrophe according to Brewi and Brennan would be to embrace our shadows while at the same time rejecting much of what we’ve valued up until this point, deeming most of our past choices to be the wrong ones, and the ‘self’ that we’ve presented to the world up until this point as an impostor. Those of us who respond to our shadows by abandoning all of the now rejected old, in order to be completely free to experiment with the more titillating new, often sabotage their development and risk catastrophic losses.
Psychotherapist, James Dolan, suggests that one of the most obvious ways that we can detect the presence of the shadow is in the simmering depression that haunts so many of us. This depression, from his perspective, is connected to our sorrow, our regret, our resentment, our lost dreams, our creativity, and so many other facets of ourselves that we’ve denied.
Finding oneself is not purely about embracing the desired, or rejecting the unpleasant. Instead, it’s about examination and integration — exploring what fits, letting go of what no longer works, embracing the gifts that we’ve lost or abandoned, and weaving the various strands of the self together to create a whole and unified tapestry.

The years following young adulthood offer as many (if not more) prospects for growth than our often romanticized youth promised. Opening ourselves up to these possibilities by reclaiming or modifying old visions or by creating new dreams fosters hope, discovery and renewal. Focusing on what did not/ might have/ could have/ should have/ and should not have been only leads to prolonged and unnecessary suffering.

It’s impossible to arrive at midlife without being scarred. In “Listening to Midlife” Mark Gerzon points out, “None of us reaches the second half whole… Our health depends on beginning to heal these wounds and finding greater wholeness – and holiness in the second half of our lives.”
The process of healing past wounds and reclaiming lost gifts can often be a painful one, and yet when we proceed with wisdom and integrity, it is always a sacred journey.

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Here’s a short thoughtful video based on an old and wonderful story, one that’s particularly meaningful today.

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The process of individuation (of becoming oneself) which begins the day we are born takes on a greater depth and intensity at midlife. It’s from this place of accumulated wisdom and experience that we’re most likely to come face to face with our shadow. Our shadows consist of those parts of ourselves that we’ve repressed, rejected, lost or abandoned — the person I might have been, and the one that I chose not (dared not) to be. Psychiatrist, Carl Jung, called the shadow the “negative side” of the individual. I choose to think of it as the disowned self. It’s the dark side, the silent witness who steps forward from time to time into the light to have its say. Its appearance, while unsettling, brings with it a creative force that offers tremendous opportunities for deepening and growth. If, from time to time, we move toward our shadows, rather than turn away, we will discover significant gifts from within our depths. Reclaiming lost and buried parts of ourselves will most likely require some excavation, however the buried treasures available to those willing to dig deep are well worth the dark journey into the unknown…

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There is a wonderful resource available online, Global Spirit.

“Global Spirit is an unprecedented inquiry into the universe of human consciousness, across the exciting interface of television and the internet.

We are delighted to be finally launching this new original series, which will be airing nationally on Link TV and selected PBS stations, and internationally via the internet. Each program focuses on a universal theme of global and timeless significance, themes that concern us all on the most basic human level: Forgiveness, Oneness, Ecstasy, Earth Wisdom, Art and the creative process, and more.

Programs will feature riveting conversations between our host Phil Cousineau, and a selection of inspiring guests who speak from first-hand experience about their own personal journeys into the realms of human consciousness and transformation.

These conversations are unlike anything you’ve heard before on national television. They are complimented by amazing documentary film segments from around the world. These experiential film segments both inspire our guests and ignite their conversations.

Global Spirit also features extraordinary full-length documentaries, which are framed and deepened by engaging interviews with the filmmakers or related guests. Most of the programs will also be streamed right here on our GlobalSpirit.tv website.

Why this series now? It’s no secret that we are currently in a time of deep global economic and environmental crisis. And yet, amidst this crisis, many of use are aware that something new is happening, that a certain sense of change is in the air. But “change” is not something that just happens from the outside. Real change happens on a human, personal level, and most often involves an internal journey. “

I encourage you to pay it a visit and watch the videos that are available there to view and then talk to at least one person about what you saw.

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A new study conducted at Laval University in Quebec Canada found that talk therapy is superior to the use of medication alone in treating insomnia. You can read more about the findings of this study here.

Recommnendations for those suffering from insomnia by those who conduceted the study include but are not limited to:

1. Don’t read, watch television, worry, etc. in bed, bed time should only be sleep time.

2. If you are unable to sleep after 20 minutes, get out of bed and return to bed only when you’re sleepy again.

3. Establish a wake up time that is the same time each morning, don’t plan on getting up at 7:00 one morning, 9:00 the next, 7:00 the next, etc.

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Edward Tick in “War and the Soul” wrote, ” “In ancient Greek psyche means “soul.” Our modern scientific thinking equates psyche with mind, limiting the word to its psychological dimension alone and thus reducing its resonance and depth. Nonetheless, as every ancient and modern tradition avers, we are on a spiritual journey through this life and, if we are to travel well, it is important to understand the concept of psyche in this fuller sense of soul.”

I couldn’t agree more…

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